(Illustration by Rafael Marchesini.) |
Intimacy starts with letting others love you. Not being yourself around people prevents intimacy. And, depending on yourself to solve everything all of the time prevents engaging with other people. The difficult part of intimacy comes when you have to tell people things you don't want to tell them or that you willl know they won't like. When people talk about intimate things you love them more.
I just realized that Al Anon and the 12 steps are all about fostering intimacy. Telling another human being about your shortcomings and they will listen without judgment. Learning to accept yourself after seeing that other people accept you for what you are.
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