Al-Anon’s Tradition 8: Al-Anon Twelfth Step work
should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ
special workers.
(Photo by Dimitris Kritsotakis.) |
The traditions aren’t big in my area, so I’ve only been to
one meeting that discussed Tradition 8. To me this tradition directly relates
to Step Twelve: Having had a spiritual awakening, we tried to carry this message
to others and to practice these principals in all our affairs. We can each
use our gifts as volunteers to spread the word about the program.
Another way this tradition helps is to not give newcomers
the impression that they are being “sold” a particular philosophy that may
chase them away. We announce at the beginnings of the meetings to keep outside
religions and professions out of the discussion. This helps members (newcomers
in particular) realize that their opinions are just as valid as others,
“professional” or not. It makes people’s shares more human and we can better
identify with one another.
Since I am not a professional in any job that this would
apply to, I have to remember for myself that I am not a professional and I
don’t need to give unsolicited advice about medical care, mental illness, legal
matters or other things on which I am not qualified to give advice on.
Tradition 8 is another measure that keeps us equal. I know
that people who have been in the program for years and years come in suffering
as if it were their first day. We can’t lord it over each other because
focusing on others keeps us from focusing on ourselves.
I assume that the “special workers” means people who get
paid, or else there probably wouldn’t be enough volunteers to run some of the
day-to-day functions of the office. No group can ask the few who are willing to
work for free to take on extra work all of the time. I’m sure this would bring
out the martyrs, which is a character defect that the Al Anon program often
addresses and helps members to eliminate.
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